Of Cabbages and Kings

October 16, 2009

Death of a watchman

Filed under: Uncategorized — Maya @ 8:41 pm

It has long been the great Indian tradition to break rules. The more flagrant the violation, the greater one’s consequence. Queue jumping, commandeering of regulated items like LPG (or ‘cooking gas’ as we called it when we were seven), refusing to be frisked at airports, illegal pollution and cutting down of trees…you name it and people fall over eachother to do it.

Several proud upholders of this tradition live on the same quiet tree-lined street as my mother. In keeping with its spirit, their children are happy to regale the neighbourhood with their startlingly loud firecrackers late into the night. They have been at it for almost a week.

Among their rather impressive range of loud nerve-wracking sounds are the ‘atom bombs’ that I particularly loathed as a child (they make all the windows in the vicinity vibrate), which I am informed are banned these days. But India being the way it is,  prohibition make the celebrations particularly enjoyable.

My mother and I are almost accustomed to jumping out of our skin every now and then, and we take care to sit on well cushioned surfaces to ensure that our landings are comfortable. I imagine that the rest of the neighbourhood has also decided to grin and bear it. And so we went on.

This morning, the elderly gentleman who is the building’s security system, gardener and odd-job man rolled into one, returned from his long visit to his village. This evening, after completing his chores and locking the building gate, he dropped dead.

I was told that he has had a hole in his heart for years. Perfectly healthy people complain of minor palpitations after each rude blast from the neighbourhood brats’ illegal bombs. I can only imagine what effect the sudden explosions may have had on a man with a heart problem.

As his heart started to seize and flicker, his teenage daughters ran out on to the road to see whether they could get him to a hospital on time.  There is an excellent hospital 2 minutes away, but fate and the Indian disregard for rules intervened. Another neighbour bent on upholding the great Indian tradition had constructed a gate on the road to the hospital, and locked it up for the night. So the car rushing the dying man to the hospital took a long diversion and ten unnecessary minutes to get there. He gasped his dying gasp just as they were carrying him out of the vehicle into the hospital.

Until he died, it had never occurred to me that amidst all this (illegal) racket created in quiet places during festivals, there live several indigent and powerless people that cannot handle the shock. Even if K had known that the explosions were bad for his heart, there is very little he could have done to stop the rich kids that were making all the noise. Even if his wife knew that he might need to be rushed to the hospital from time to time, she could have done very little to ensure that the gate blocking the road to the hospital was kept open. A rich man would have has the operations necessary to fix his heart. A rich man would call the neighbour and threaten to report him to the police.

And so it happens that on a day that a bunch of rich children decide to break rules and have fun, a poor man dies. A vigilant watchman, an excellent gardner and above all one of the best fathers that ever was, he will be missed. His wife was in hysterics and his young daughters were looking after her. My mother’s landlady was close to tears.

And I sit here wondering – if we followed rules…if we thought about the elderly before breaking regulations about noise, if we thought about the desperately ill before blocking the road to the hospital, if a poor man and his family were allowed a voice, would this man be alive?

June 16, 2009

Filed under: Uncategorized — Maya @ 9:40 am

Every few years someone betrays you. Either for the first time or as a running thread througha long relationship that finally reveals itself, bright red, dragging and unmistakable.

It isn’t always a good idea to share some kinds of personal space with people that might do that. I shared this space with someone in a misguided act of trust and now that I have to withdraw from the betrayer, I have to kill the blog and start anew where my space is free from intrusion.

What I am trying to say is that this is goodbye.

Update:

I’ve changed my mind. Nobody is that important. This is my space, and my space it shall remain. So I shall linger after all, and infrequent chatter away, as is my custom.

May 15, 2009

Election run-up

Filed under: Uncategorized — Tags: , , , , , — Maya @ 12:58 am

Two days to go and I wonder who it will be. Most people say that it doesn’t make a difference and that one politician is worse than the other. I disagree. To my mind there is a vast difference between a party that functions on an acknowledgedly Nazi-style strategy and one that doesn’t.

Yes, the Congress has been accused of burying gigantic scams, but the BJP has been accused of burying genocide. The Congress has , decades ago, fanned the anti-Sikh riots, declared the infamous long stretch of Emergency rule and gone on terrifying forced sterilisation binges. But the momentum of those events does not drive the party anymore, and the particular fears and ideology that drove them is long gone.

The Sangh Parivar on the other hand, has created the infamous Mangalore Pub incident, and the related attacks on women in Bangalore, in its first stint running Karnataka. Members of the BJP are key suspects in terrorist bomb plots (calculated to instigate communal violence). Nuns are still raped and murdered in the North-East, and the party continues firmly in its Hindu fundamentalist ways

So do I think I want a Prime Minister who ”led the Ayodhya movement, the biggest mass movement in India since Independence, and initiated a powerful debate on cultural nationalism and the true meaning of secularism” *,  without any regard for the fact that this ‘mass movement’ consisted of an enormous mob of hooligans that stormed a place which had little to do with them and broke the Babri Masjid, sacred both for its religious and historical significance?  Do I think that a party that, in the name of security, announces that it will re-instate repressive laws which will take away most of our constitutional rights, and comes up with the utterly ludicrous idea of requiring everybody to have a ‘national identity card’ in a country where most people don’t have access to food, birth certificates, permanent addresses, bank balances or ration cards, is the same as a party that suppresses scams? I am afraid not.

Sadly, I am not in the country and was not able to vote this year. Other NRIs seem to be making a great big fuss about it. I won’t pretend to be pleased about not being able to vote, but I do think that it is a little self-absorbed to throw tantrums about fancy postal ballots when we know perfectly well that there are many more people within the country deprive of their right to vote than there are outside. Honestly, if one of us really really wanted to vote, there nothing stopping us from hopping on a plane back home to do it, as we do without a thought when our friends get married or our grand parents fall ill. If a migrant labourer wants to vote, odds are that she’s going to find it literally impossible. And perhaps it is just speculation but I imagine that the entire community of migrant labourers might need political power more than the hordes of NRIs scattered around the earth.

*from the BJP manifesto

May 2, 2009

Stephen Fry: Letter to himself

“I know the index-card waltz of (auto)biographies, poems and novels you are dancing: those same names are still so close to the surface of my mind nearly four decades later. Novels, poetry and the worlds of art and ideas are opening up in front of you almost incidentally. You spend all your time in the library yearning to be told that you are not alone, and an unlooked for side-effect of this just happens to be a real education achieved in a private school designed for philistine bumpkins. Being born queer has given you, by mistake, a fantastic advantage over the rugger-playing ordinaries who surround you.”

A lovely, funny, even heartbreaking letter to his younger self. I like this man more than ever. Read the whole letter here.

March 24, 2009

The woman who fights back

Filed under: Uncategorized — Tags: , , , , , , — Maya @ 1:04 am

Politicians rarely move me. But a woman my age who marches for something she believes, endures what many might see as debilitating humiliation, refuses the jobs and money offered in compensation and runs instead for elected office so that she can push for the policy changes she believes in, is a woman that I admire from the bottom of my heart. 

I hope that Laxmi Orang wins – it might mean that one corner of the world will be a slightly better place.

November 29, 2008

What we can do

Filed under: Uncategorized — Maya @ 1:04 pm

Suketu Mehta has always had this talent for being able to trace the spirit of Bombay out in words. The beautiful and elusive spirit of Bombay is something that I see in my mind but am unable to draw out for you as he does. So I will give you his words, instead of mine:

Mumbai is all about dhandha, or transaction. From the street food vendor squatting on a sidewalk, fiercely guarding his little business, to the tycoons and their dreams of acquiring Hollywood, this city understands money and has no guilt about the getting and spending of it. I once asked a Muslim man living in a shack without indoor plumbing what kept him in the city. “Mumbai is a golden songbird,” he said. It flies quick and sly, and you’ll have to work hard to catch it, but if you do, a fabulous fortune will open up for you. The executives who congregated in the Taj Mahal hotel were chasing this golden songbird. The terrorists want to kill the songbird.

And his answer which I endorse and adopt as mine:

But the best answer to the terrorists is to dream bigger, make even more money, and visit Mumbai more than ever. Dream of making a good home for all Mumbaikars, not just the denizens of $500-a-night hotel rooms. Dream not just of Bollywood stars like Aishwarya Rai or Shah Rukh Khan, but of clean running water, humane mass transit, better toilets, a responsive government. Make a killing not in God’s name but in the stock market, and then turn up the forbidden music and dance; work hard and party harder.

If the rest of the world wants to help, it should run toward the explosion. It should fly to Mumbai…

From his article in the New York Times.

November 26, 2008

Calling 999

Filed under: Uncategorized — Tags: , , — Maya @ 3:19 am

It is interesting that this should come up in today’s paper since I spent the last evening reading all I could on the emergency numbers that one might use in London. 

Two young men  - good friends of my flatmate – were mugged in Camden and left unconcious on the street. This sort of story frightens me. London is full of dark streets and one in three international students are apparently robbed. So I think it is safe to assume that I stand a reasonable chance of being attacked over this year.  The next question I suppose would be – what does one do if one sees goons sidle up on a lonely street? Shouting and attempting to run usually results in more violence so that’s not an option. The only thing that remains is to get in touch with the police and so we turn to 999.

999 is a one-stop emergency number so after you dial, you usually have to choose from a menu of options as to what kind of emergency yours might be. Presumable the thugs’d be upon you by then and you wouldn’t be in the best position to pay careful attention to the menu, press the correct button and spend a few minutes describing the exact nature of your emergency. 

And here’s an article that popped up this morning on a girl that tried just that. She was being attacked – raped by a stranger – and she called 999. Emergency operators apparently have the power to override the automated options if they hear suspicious sounds, but apparently ‘ the quality of the background conversation between Hannah and the driver was too indistinct to raise concerns’. This is the conversation that the operator heard and while the oversight can be understood in this specific case, I cannot understand why no one seems to be interrogating the system. A little more time spent listening to the call and Hannah Foster may not have had to die.

Is it so difficult to imagine that someone covertly calling an emergency number mayn’t be able to arrange for appropriate descriptions or clear sounds within a minute from calling?

October 29, 2008

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October 28, 2008

snow

Filed under: Uncategorized — Maya @ 10:27 pm

I burst out of the subway into what I thought was rain and little white flakes drifted down…on my coat, my eyelashes. Snow is really as beautiful as music. It is also as cold as hell. Especially if you are wearing thin cloth shoes and are barehanded. Ten minutes later, a fascinated girl with frozen fingers and soggy feet stumbled into her warm hall of residence. 

I am lookng out of my window right now. The night has shrouded the magical drift but there is a white carpet on the roofs below my window to remind me that I was not dreaming.

October 25, 2008

Misogynists’ anctics

Filed under: Uncategorized — Tags: , , , — Maya @ 9:52 pm

Here’s something funny. There’s a man that is so anti-women that he actually spend all his time suing all the organisations that offer women concessions. Perhaps next year he’ll sue God for having priveledged women by allowing them and only them to bear children.

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